Interracial relationships are not exactly taboo anymore but you still find that interracial couples tend to get certain looks, especially from white guys. This article explains the motivations behind some of these attitudes and why the fact that they are still so common in the white male community is actually a big indicator of the desirability and benefits of interracial relationships. In other words, why you as a white woman need to go black from the start.
4. Black men are more successful.
You must have noticed that black boys mature a lot quicker than their white counterparts. In fact, black men tend to tick off a lot of milestones faster than white boys. Blacks lose their virginity earlier, move out earlier, pass their driving test earlier, tend to be more positive, have more motivation, and, naturally, blacks have a lot more sex. This means that white girls and black guys get into relationships a lot younger than a white dad might expect. This no doubt plays on his protectiveness, as he is worried that his little girl is growing up too fast, he may seem to be hesitant about letting her date. You should interpret his nervousness as a testament to the desirability of black men as partners. So all in all reason 4 is relatively straightforward: If you want a more mature, exciting, and positive relationship with a man who has his shit together, your best bet is to go black. No need to try a white boy first.
3. Black men are more confident.
Assertiveness, Swagger, Big Dick Energy, call it what you want but black men certainly got it and it shows. A black guy will take control and make sure to give you what you need while not being afraid to handle fiery, passionate relationships. Whether he is making you laugh or making you moan, his cool confidence will shine through, reassuring you that you made the right choice by going black. The white dad of course may not be very understanding of this, mistaking your black boyfriend’s confidence for cockiness, perhaps feeling a little pang of dread as he thinks about your boo’s intentions with you. By taking every opportunity to show off how happy and healthy your relationship is, those worries should quickly disappear, he too will be able to see how safe you are in your black lover’s big strong arms.
2. Black men are more dominant.
If you like men who know what they want and are happy to take charge then you will find that a black man is ideal for you. He will treat you right, make sure you’re taken care of, and provide healthy masculine energy to your life and relationship. In the bedroom, he will have no problem being in control and won’t shy away from fulfilling any submissive fantasies you have. With the persistence of toxic white male culture in our society, it should come as no surprise that a white dad may see your lover’s natural, effortless dominance as a threat. He may become insecure, to him, your relationship calls into question whether or not he’s still the man of the house. While this will no doubt cause much drama and undeserved headaches for you, it helps to support your black boyfriend whenever he displays any sort of dominance over your dad. This is good practice for both, and you can take comfort in the fact that your lover’s presence is helping your dad learn about healthy masculinity by showing him what a real man is, i.e. black and dominant.
1. Black men are more physically gifted.
It’s no secret that when it comes to height, athleticism and, shall we say, length, black men take the gold medal. Sexual compatibility and satisfaction is an important aspect of relationships that is too often overlooked by women. You will find sex with a black man to be a much deeper experience than you could ever imagine. You will find yourself feeling things you may not have felt before and finding it hard to keep your hands off each other. These new sexual adventures will no doubt also lead to a much stronger sense of intimacy between you and your black partner, for a much more satisfying relationship overall. As for your white dad, you may be thinking “why in the world would he even be thinking about something like this?”. And you’d be right, it’s actually rather sad but the culture most white men grow up in has very creepy racial ideas about white men’s ownership of white women’s bodies. It does little good to be mad at him about it, he’s not entirely to blame, after all his upbringing was probably saturated with the influences of toxic masculinity and white fragility. To get to the point, these influences are what causes him to project certain unhealthy ideas onto your interracial relationship. Men tend to have very primitive views on sex so it is easiest to explain these ideas in very basic biological terms. To put it simply: penis envy, a bigger (i.e. more masculine/dominant), blacker (i.e. foreign/different), cock is screwing his daughter and there is nothing he can do about it. That thought wraps his feelings of submissiveness into a neat little emasculating package, a package he gets to peek into every time he thinks about your relationship. There is no reason to let your white dad’s issues bring you down, after all, it is not your fault that a black man’s bigger penis with a darker complexion is all it takes to shatter your dad’s fragile masculinity.